BUTTERFLIES AMONG US

LUPUS/Fibromyalgia and more: Support for all

Shelia

Lonely Hearts Club

Information

Lonely Hearts Club

For those who are alone, feel lonely, have a fear of dying alone, are married and still alone. Have been abandoned by someone. Come and share how you feel, your fears, vent, give advice on how you cope.

Members: 49
Latest Activity: Nov 24

Discussion Forum

heather

REALLY DERPRESSED 5 Replies

Started by heather. Last reply by margaret gowan Nov. 7, 2008.

moment (paula)

alone but not alone, fears of abandonment etc

Started by moment (paula) May. 26, 2008.

Shelia

Hoping to reach out to others 23 Replies

Started by Shelia. Last reply by TinaLovesFairies May. 12, 2008.

Comment Wall

Add a Comment

You need to be a member of Lonely Hearts Club to add comments!

Jodi L. Dodd Comment by Jodi L. Dodd on November 24, 2009 at 12:14pm
Married but very alone. Husband says we don't have anything in common anymore, is increasingly distant, critical, lacks interest in time with me. I so wish I could be the active, adventurous girl he married, but my lupus has slowed me down for now. Like Christina-I hate losing my life.
joy Comment by joy on November 18, 2009 at 5:52pm
Hi my name is joy, just wanted to join because I have been feeling so low lately, I just can't seem to bring myself round I feel so lonely that i cry all the time, I lost my friends when I had to finish work because of my illness, I have two lovely daughters who don't really understand but try, I am shouting at the slightest thing with them and don't know i'm doing it sometimes, which then upsets me more, my youngest daughter who's 9yrs old comes and hugs me and asks me whats wrong why am I crying, I keep saying I'm fine don't worry mummys cry sometimes too, which makes me feel bad.
I just feel no one understands how i feel ,my family thinks that I should pull myself together, I just wish I knew how.
Is there anyone who can help me get through this, my GP is just useless.
Angela D Ramsey Comment by Angela D Ramsey on April 16, 2009 at 6:30pm
I was recently diagnosed with FMS. I've had all kinds of tests done and finally came upon a doctor that knew what I had the minute I started describing my symptoms.

I'm a Correctional Officer, Volunteer Firefighter and EMT... I'm just wondering when I'm going to have to stop all of that. I'm struggling now. My legs gave out on me back in December when I was at the Prison. I fell going up a set of metal stairs and broke my right arm.

I just wonder, what's next?
Christina Knighton Comment by Christina Knighton on April 8, 2009 at 12:01am
Hi all, I just feel like my family doesn't understand how hard it is to deal with Lupus and sometimes I feel like no one cares. I know this isn't true because I know my daughters love me. I am divorced and have been on my own for 23 years. Never remarried. I've always been very independent and my health has plummeted in the last year. This is a scary thing. I've always hoped to meet someone, however the right person never came along. I feel like the people at work think I'm a pain in the tush because I miss so much work due to being ill. I feel like they don't believe me and feel very alone at work due to this. It's really not fair to my coworkers. They are a good bunch. I think it's just me. I hate losing my life...... Thanks for the ear. Christina
Dorothy Moniz Comment by Dorothy Moniz on July 17, 2008 at 9:38pm
GO TO SUPERFLYCHICKEN.COM
SUPERFLYCHICKEN.COM...texaspigtails
Dorothy Moniz Comment by Dorothy Moniz on June 23, 2008 at 12:23pm
Hi,my name is Dorothy,nickname Texaspigtails.I am so glad i found this group,i know all about feeling alone even when there's someone sitting next to you.I hate feeling alone,i have felt that way my whole life,can anyone tell me how to get past that feeling? I have done everything.Even when i was able to work,and worked 14 hour days or two full time jobs,there was still something missing in my heart,i still felt lonely every min. of the day.I wake up in the middle of the night,when i can sleep,feeling lonely.Some say its because of past marrage and the way it ended,and the fact i was given away as a baby,but i am not sure thats all of it.I know it hurts me in my life now,still after all the years,Why?can anyone help me get over this,done tried doctors,they don't help.
Zabac Comment by Zabac on May 29, 2008 at 8:19pm
Hi. My name is Kelly. I just wanted to join because i've been feeling alone lately. Hubby is not being supportive and being mean to me. I hope to get to know all of you better.
 

Members (49)

Shelia Kim Deanielle karen TinaLovesFairies Tricia Parciak Kathlene Sharon heather karen woolfolk Imelda JAZMINE herlinda Kimber Signhild margaret gowan Dotti Obert Kristin Pugh joi karen moment (paula) Joy Audra Rodrigeuz Juliett Carol Valentin Kevin Simien Gentle Rains stephanie mitchell feeling2008 QueenWhiteRose~Christie
 
 

About

Badge

Loading…

Forum

Niki

Scared about Cytoxan 3 Replies

I had a kidney biopsy last Friday. My Dr called today saying he was going to take me off the Imuran and start Cytoxan treatment for 2 months. I've been reading up on this med and it has me scared. ...

Started by Niki in MEDICATIONS. Last reply by Carla Giacoio 9 hours ago.

joy

anyone with fibro living inyorkshire England 1 Reply

Hi my name is Joy I am 46yrs old I live in Barnsley sth Yorkshire, I was diagnosed with Fibro and CFS 2 years ago and searched many sites and places for other people with the same condition, I have...

Started by joy in DO YOU LIVE NEAR ME?. Last reply by Carla Giacoio 9 hours ago.

Dotti Obert

In Severe Pain 5 Replies

I got up this morning, and the pain was so severe. I haven't felt pain so bad in a long time. I took my meds, and they didn't seem to make a difference at all. This makes me so tired to have to try...

Started by Dotti Obert in I'M IN NEED OF SUPPORT PLEASE!!. Last reply by Shelly Binkley 1 day ago.

julie

Lymphoma, or just the lupus??? 22 Replies

Hi everyone! I recently saw my doctor who told me my lupus was flaring. But because my doc also noticed a swollen lymph node on my neck and I had some symptoms such as night sweats and itching, I w...

Tagged: lymphoma, Lupus

Started by julie in I'M IN NEED OF SUPPORT PLEASE!!. Last reply by Shelly Binkley 1 day ago.

Michelle

My Hysterectomy and HRT 2 Replies

I have Lupus, MCT, Sjogrens syndrome and low b/p, my list does grow. I recently had a total abdominal hysterctomy. I was loaded with endometriosis, I no longer has my ovaries, cervix and everything...

Started by Michelle in MEDICAL QUESTIONS. Last reply by Shelly Binkley 1 day ago.

Kiara

Has anybody been diagnosed with lupus with a negative ANA? 34 Replies

I've only met 2 persons, and obviously myself!!! Hope to read from you guys!!!!

Started by Kiara in BLOOD WORK. Last reply by Shelly Binkley 1 day ago.

Vee Marie

Fibromyalgia & Disability Benefits? 10 Replies

Has anyone in here with Fibromyalgia had success being approved for SSA Disability Benefits? If yes: any helpful pointers? I just got off the phone with an advocate who told me that Fibromyalgia i...

Tagged: input, info, advice, ssa, disability

Started by Vee Marie in OTHER QUESTIONS. Last reply by Shelly Binkley 1 day ago.

colsbutterflies

ANYBODY LIVING IN FLORIDA?? 4 Replies

I AM SERIOUSLY THINKING OF MOVING TO FLORIDA FROM PHILLY. THIS WILL HELP MY FINANCIAL AND EMOTIONAL STRESS GREATLY. SO I WAS WONDERING, IF WE HAVE ANY FLORIDA LUPIES, AND HOW THE CLIMATE THERE IS O...

Started by colsbutterflies in I'M IN NEED OF SUPPORT PLEASE!!. Last reply by Carla Giacoio 1 day ago.

Amy Jill

ANYONE HERE EVERY BEEN ON XYREM / SODIUM OXYBATE

Hello, I was just wondering if anybody here has tried Sodium Oxybate or Xyrem for sleep. I have been going back and forth with this for over a year. But last week when I got my pharmacy newsletter...

Started by Amy Jill in MEDICATIONS Nov 24.

Donna J Farr

Hello Everyone 4 Replies

My Back Surgery has been post poned, so I really don't know when they rescdudle again My Headake are getting worse so it will be a while before they reschdudle. I have to see my family Doctor on Mo...

Started by Donna J Farr in MISCELLANEOUS. Last reply by Donna J Farr Nov 24.

Sandy Medine

SOMETHING WONDERFUL IS ABOUT TO HAPPEN

August 28 , 2008 SOMETHING WONDERFUL IS ABOUT TO HAPPEN The What's Up On Planet Earth? energy alerts are offered several times per month by viewing them here. Your financial support makes it poss...

Tagged: TO, HAPPEN, ABOUT, IS, WONDERFUL

Started by Sandy Medine in MISCELLANEOUS Nov 17.

Joey

Need Buddies in OHIO 1 Reply

I live near Cleveland in Ohio.... anyone out there in the same area?? I have no friends with autoimmune diseases that live near me! :( Thanks, Joey

Tagged: ohio

Started by Joey in DO YOU LIVE NEAR ME?. Last reply by Michelle Nov 14.

Roxanne

New Here 1 Reply

Hi, my name is Roxanne I'm 21 years old. I was diagnosed with Lupus when I was 20. I also have another Autoimmune Disease Antiphospholipid Antibody Syndrome. I have Endometrosis, MTHFR Disease (blo...

Started by Roxanne in INTRODUCTIONS/PERSONAL STORIES. Last reply by Stacey Mommy to many Nov 12.

Donna J Farr

Surgery/Nov 10th 2 Replies

I am so afraid so afraid of this surgery, It is surgery on my back. I have degenerated disc disease in L4 and L5 is just about nothing there. The surgery will take 8 to 10 hours and I just pray eve...

Started by Donna J Farr in I'M IN NEED OF SUPPORT PLEASE!!. Last reply by Donna J Farr Nov 9.

Sandy Medine

The 12 Principles of Attitudinal Healing ~ by Dr. Gerald Jampolsky based on A Course In Miracles

The 12 Principles of Attitudinal Healing ~ by Dr. Gerald Jampolsky based on A Course In Miracles ~ a way to see differently ~ not a quick fix but a process to apply to any situation that ultimately...

Tagged: on, based, Jampolsky, A, Course

Started by Sandy Medine in MISCELLANEOUS Oct 31.

Sandy Medine

The Cancer Cure Video that circled the globe in 31 minutes

Go watch the video by going to the following webpage: http://tracking.ilinkmd.com/Partner/14774

Tagged: globe, in, 31, minutes, the

Started by Sandy Medine in NATURAL REMEDIES, HOLISTIC, HERBAL, ETC Oct 22.

Sandy Medine

The Cancer Cure Video that circled the globe in 31 minutes

The Cancer Cure Video that circled the globe in 31 minutes by Danica Collins t's not everyday that I find a good reason to send an e-mail to my entire address list. Today, I sense a moral oblig...

Tagged: globe, in, 31, minutes, the

Started by Sandy Medine in NATURAL REMEDIES, HOLISTIC, HERBAL, ETC Oct 22.

Amy Domestico

Finding a Cure

Your Lid Matters, with Yoplait and Dr. Funk The Wii Mommies would like to extend their welcome to Dr.Kristi Funk, a board-certified surgical breast specialist and an expert in minimally-invasive di...

Started by Amy Domestico in I'M IN NEED OF SUPPORT PLEASE!! Oct 20.

Sandy Medine

Quantum Physicist reveals how to master “The Secret”!!download free e-book

http://www.believeandmanifest.com/1/bam/index.php? “First Time I Used This Method, It Changed My Life Forever" Quantum Physicist reveals how to master “The Secret”!! From: Dr. Eric Amidi, Quant...

Tagged: http://www.believeandmanife...

Started by Sandy Medine in AWARENESS WORK Oct 19.

Sandy Medine

New Body Templates Coming Soon!

-------------------------------------------------- Beacons of Light ~ Re-minders from Home are now translated into 24 languages each month. Click on a flag below or see the Translation Page> -...

Tagged: Soon!, LIGHTWORKERS.COM, Coming, Templates, Body

Started by Sandy Medine in MISCELLANEOUS Oct 18.

 

© 2009   Created by Butterfly Kimberly on Ning.   Create a Ning Network!

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Privacy  |  Terms of Service

Sign in to chat!